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Life Coach, Blogger Read full profile. Are you in a relationship that feels like it may be over? While written with romantic relationships in mind, these signs apply to friendships as well. Do you replay the happy moments of the relationship to make you feel good about it?
Remember your relationship with the person exists in the current moment. Not in the past. Past memories should remain as memories and not as a reason to stay together. Sometimes, we tend to be blinded by the past happy moments of the relationship.
To the extent we forget about all the unhappiness it brings us. The relationship you are in now should be one which brings you happiness now. Just like 1, if the main source of happiness of your relationship is from past memories, something is amiss. Some of my friends had ex-boyfriends who wanted them to change, such as to dress up more often to look prettier or to lose weight when said friend was of healthy weight.
There was even one who actually suggested my friend to shave her arm and leg hair because he felt it was a given for girls!
The above applies for the other person as much as it applies for you. This happened between my ex-best friend, K, and me. While we were not in a romantic relationship, some issues we faced in our friendship are probably similar to what others face in their romantic relationships.
Through our friendship, I began to see him as an extension of me, rather than as a separate individual. K did not have a very strong self-identity at the time, so unfortunately he kept changing to fit what I wanted. In the end, he became my shadow. After 10 years of friendship, we had to part ways , because it was the better path for us to grow as individuals — for him to grow into his own, and for me to grow into my own as well. It refers to the discomfort from being faced with something that conflicts against our beliefs.
When this happens, we try to come up with explanations, justifications so we can feel good about the situation.
This if we feel the need to justify an action, that means we are uncomfortable with the action itself and we want to explain away the discomfort. The danger behind this is that the explanations are self-created and may or may not be true.
Likelihood is that you are living in your world of false assurances rather than the truth. Since he would behave in a way that was more than a friend would to a friend but yet not move the relationship forward, I would think of different reasons to justify why nothing was happening. Maybe he was shy. Maybe studies was his priority. Maybe I should take the first step. Everything else was just made up in my mind to fill up the gap between this reality and my expectations. By creating all these justifications, I had unknowingly created a mental jigsaw which I had to slowly peel away in the later years.
To see reality as it is, see the actions as they are and let them speak for themselves. Actions ultimately speak louder than words. Emotional hurt is trickier. But emotional hurt is hurt all the same, if not worse. The wounds that are hardest to heal are the emotional ones, not the physical ones.
Once might be a coincidence. Twice, you might want to give another chance. But 3 times is a clear sign something is wrong. I finally realized nothing was coming out from the relationship between G and I after our loop played out the third time.
Each time, I did what I could to make it work out, but it always stopped at the same end. It was more than enough evidence that this was the end. Do you find yourself in replay mode in your relationship? Do you keep landing in the same situation, the same scenario, the same outcome, time and again, no matter what you do?
If so, perhaps you need to accept this is the furthest the relationship can get to. This is the end of the road. Every relationship requires effort by the duo. The same applies for familial bonds, friendships, mentorships and most definitely love. Both of you have to commit to the relationship together. You have to give more and more just to keep the relationship afloat. Unless this imbalance is addressed, it will only become bigger and bigger over time.
Soon you sink your whole self into it, losing your self identity in the process. For any friendship or relationship to work out, there has to be certain similarity in fundamental values. Similarity in these values are the big rocks which will hold the friendship in place. Even if other things are dissimilar, the big rocks will enable the friendship to weather through even the toughest storms ahead. The journey to keep the relationship together will only become an uphill battle. Without the roots of the tree to hold this soil together, everything will just slip away against your best efforts.
A relationship is ultimately a third entity formed due to two individuals. Every relationship evolves based on how both parties are growing. Sometimes both parties grow at the same pace. Then there are times when one outgrows the other, by a large margin. Determine who you are and who you want to be, then decide if this relationship is one that is compatible with you.
This is similar to 1, except it pertains to the future. You can hope that the future will be better, but the fact is you live now.
The future you wish for is one of the many possibilities that can occur, a possibility that may never come to reality. A building built on a shaky foundation will crash to an unsightly end when the foundation gives way.
Some of you might linger on in a relationship even though the feelings are gone. Some of you continue on because the relationship still serves certain functional purposes, such as companionship. Yet, a relationship without the mutual feelings is like a body without a heart. If you no longer have feelings for the other party, staying on is doing the other person an injustice.
Letting go is one way of saying I love you. True love exists outside of the physical fabric of a relationship. This is just a form of expression of love, but in no way is the single definition of love. There are things that we never want to let go of, people we never want to leave behind. Get the manifesto version of this article: Lori Joan via flickr. Freelance Writer Read full profile. Life is filled with highs and lows —happiness and struggles that will test your resilience and integrity, push you to overcome challenges and leave you with lessons that will make you even stronger on your way up.
It all starts with your thoughts. You should never regret anything in life. Never apologize for having high standards, people who really want to be in your life will rise to meet them. Never give up on a dream just because of the time it will take to accomplish it, time will pass anyway. Get a reward from it. Check out this guide:.
Share Pin it Tweet Share Email. When you live in past memories more than the present. When the relationship brings you more pain than joy. Below is a list of the best motivational quotes to inspire you to start your day with a blast: Table of Contents Quotes for self-assurance Quotes about positivity Quotes for work and success Quotes about money.
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Princess Bubblegum, whose incomplete reconstruction at the end of season two resulting from the candy surgeons' inability to completely recover all the pieces of her bubblegum body caused her to revert to her year-old self, hugs Finn after her recovery and calls him "hero. In " Too Young ," she shows much affection towards Finn.
Based on her actions, this may show that this might be Princess Bubblegum's actual feelings for him if she was at that age at the time. To complete her re-aging process they share "a whopping love-hug" and a kiss.
Afterward, she can only remember the hug "was, like, five years ago. She does this to reward Finn for going to such lengths to kiss her, and for stopping Ice King from kissing her. She slaps him shortly afterwards for cheating and ruining the sanctity of the event. After being rejected several times, in " Incendium ," Finn becomes deeply depressed and cries over Bubblegum by a little shrine he constructed made up of two framed pictures of her, his lock of her hair, and a pool of his tears.
He becomes enraged and states that he'll kill whoever started a fire that burned his two pictures of Bubblegum. In "Burning Low," Finn thinks Princess Bubblegum is jealous of his new relationship after hearing this statement from Jake; this thought is boosted by her attempts to call off the relationship, but in reality she is trying to prevent global destruction from a disastrous reaction by Flame Princess's unstable elemental matrix.
When he goes to write a poem for Flame Princess, Bubblegum finds him, and tries to explain to him that "responsibility demands sacrifice. Finn then tells him that "that road you're on leads to nowhere," which might be referring to his former love for her.
But by the end he realizes there is more of a difference between them besides just age. He now wants to talk to Flame Princess to try to fix what he caused. In " Rattleballs ," Finn has decided to get out of his last relationship by protecting Bubblegum and following her commands.
Though it was unknown if he was dedicated to Bubblegum again, he did it in an embarrassing and intrusive manner that annoys her. He also states that he served her one hundred percent like how the gumball robots were programmed. When she mentions that she's out of milk, he goes overboard and spends three weeks getting a tiny vial of special mink's milk. Later at the junkyard, he has fashioned a scrappy Bubblegum mannequin out of garbage and pretends to defend its honor, referring to it as "my lady.
They hung out and made it work, despite their age difference. In " Don't Look " Finn who had the cursed eyes that turned others into what he saw them as turned Princess Bubblegum into a "boy" which implies that he may see her more as a friend now rather than a romantic interest. She kissed Finn on the cheek, but this was not exactly in a romantic way and Finn had a rather mellow response. Flame Princess was Finn's first girlfriend, and currently, ex-girlfriend.
He first meets her at the end of the episode " Incendium. However, when Flame Princess's father tells Jake that she is evil, Jake tells her disguised as Finn that he doesn't like her, which causes her to become confused and angry, consequently attacking him and following him back to the tree fort where the real Finn is.
She starts a fire in the house which burns the pictures in Finn's shrine to Princess Bubblegum, and he becomes enraged and runs to see who ruined his shrine.
When she accidentally lights the liquid pyrotechnics left behind by Princess Bubblegum and douses her fire, he saves her and brings her into the house. When she regains consciousness, Flame Princess yells at him, "You! What's wrong with me, huh?! You don't like me?! Flame Princess blushes, then slaps Finn and warns him never to mess with her again, and flees the tree house.
After she slaps him, he immediately wanted to know who she was. He then told Jake, "Dude, I think I have a crush. In the continuation episode, " Hot to the Touch ", Finn asks Jake to help him find her, saying that he "peeped beyond her burning gaze" and that "she ain't evil," and the two run out to look for her.
They find her by a pond and hide behind bushes. Finn describes her metaphorically as "the steam off a puppy's nose searching for ham in snow" and "a cute little flower. Finn admits to Flame Princess that he really likes her and they should be together, which causes her to glow brighter and makes small fires appear around her. Finn is surprised with the fire getting near him, so he tries to put them out, not knowing that by putting out the flames he would hurt Flame Princess.
Despite the initial animosity between them, their relationship improves near the end of the episode. Finn, angry and upset that he can't "just like a girl," begins to cry. One of his tears fall on one of the fires Flame Princess had created, evoking her attention.
Flame Princess watches Finn cry, both confused and amazed. She states that she now understands that Finn is a Water Elemental because he "creates water". Flame Princess says that no matter how much they like each other, they can't be together because they will merely hurt each other. Finn replies, "No, I can take it. She hugs him, and although he smiles for the first few seconds, Finn begins to burn up and pushes her away.
Flame Princess says goodbye to him and departs. Despite the Flame King insisting his daughter is evil, Finn protests and asks if it were possible to change her to good, indicating his concern over Flame Princess' well-being. In " Reign of Gunters ", however, Finn takes the advice of a dating book called Mind Games and tries to act more mysterious, claiming he needs to keep all the ladies in a state of confusion; that way, he has "options in case Flame Princess doesn't work out", suggesting that he is not fully confident on his relationship with Flame Princess, and plans ahead in case they split up instead of being positive, further highlighting the credulity that he feels inside.
She thinks his methods are boring, and, due to her destructive personality she opts to just burn through everything with her elemental powers, causing Finn to feel slightly uneasy.
She assures Finn that she'd never hurt "[her] boyfriend," and afterwards, she says that she had a great time. In " Puhoy ," Finn says that he told Flame Princess a joke, but she didn't laugh, which causes Finn to worry about the status of their relationship, showing his innocence and inexperience, becoming somewhat paranoid that Flame Princess no longer likes him.
Upon returning from the Pillow World , Flame Princess calls him, saying that she finally got his joke, and she thought that it was funny, rekindling Finn's affections. In " Jake Suit ," it is shown that Flame Princess wants to introduce Finn to her less evil family members, but due to Jake's manipulation of Finn, he embarrasses himself. Flame Princess goes outside and confronts Finn in anger and bewilderment, but then discovers that Jake is controlling him.
Even though Flame Princess admires how Jake tries to cause Finn pain, she ultimately wishes Finn good luck and victory. In order see the dream's outcome, he continues to pit Flame Princess and Ice King against one another by writing insulting messages about them and claiming the other sent it.
Finn passes out from the heat and the dream ends with the Cosmic Owl saying he "blew it. Ice King repeats to Finn that he, indeed, blew it. In " Too Old ", Finn seemingly moved on with the breakup with Flame Princess, but was short-lived as he failed to restore his past relationship with Princess Bubblegum and realises that there is just too many differences between them to ever have a real relationship.
He then come to terms with how much he messed up with Flame Princess and decides to talk to her soon and fix what he has done, but gets nervous when Jake jokingly states that she might have a new boyfriend by now.
In response, Finn asks if they are still going out. Flame Princess says no but that they can be friends. She tells him he can visit her any time in the Fire Kingdom as long as he is completely honest with her, and he looks upset - but nods in agreement.
In " Love Games ", Finn reveals in his song that he still has feelings for Flame Princess and is sad about it. In " The Pit ", he states that he still loves Flame Princess.
By this time, Finn's despair over Flame Princess is evident of the start of his maturation later on in the series. However, Flame Princess states that she no longer has any feelings for Finn.
Finn tries to impress her by showing off his grass sword , improved swordsmanship, and updates into his personal life during their journey to the Fire Kingdom. Cinnamon Bun then admits his love for Flame Princess and vows to fight alongside her. Finn mutters "Geez, did I just get shown up by Cinnamon Bun?
It is stated in " Breezy " that Finn no longer talks to Flame Princess, which implies that he believes she and Cinnamon Bun are dating. However, in " The Mountain ", while Finn is looking through his telescope, he spots Flame Princess rehearsing a dance with Cinnamon Bun.
His reaction is that of slight longing, and perhaps contempt, igniting his decision to follow Lemongrab up the mountain, in order to distract himself from seeing his ex-girlfriend. Flame Princess also appears in the mirror as one of the three choices along with a butterfly and BMO with Jake, indicating that Finn might still have feelings for her, or isn't over her just yet.
The first of which is "love", and a cameo of Flame Princess appears, which is hinting that Finn had loved Flame Princess before, or Finn still hasn't gotten over her. In " Bun Bun " Finn finally apologises whole heartedly to Flame Princess, showing his maturity and sincerity, with Flame Princess stating "You've grown up a lot, man.
FP and I are just friends. And I'm really proud of that friendship. Getting there took a lot of trust building and emotional growth.
This suggests that Finn still cares about Flame Princess. LSP remarked "Honestly, I can still see those two working out," as she watched cursed Finn and Flame Princess—as a dragon—fight each other.
Finn wants to help her keep her kingdom after, signing a no-good contract to Toronto. He helps Phoebe in win a rap battle with Son of Rap Bear. Eventually, as by this time, Finn believes there is no way to escape the Pillow World, Finn abandons his relationship with Flame Princess to start a new life with Roselinen, having two kids named Jay and Bonnie.
When Finn finds out there is a way to escape the world, he is fully willing to go, though torn up about leaving Roselinen and his family behind. Roselinen asks Finn to not forget about them. Finn grows old and returns to his world at the point of his death in the Pillow World. After Finn tells Jake about his phone call, Finn forgets all about the dream, and also forgetting Roselinen and his family in the process.
In the episode " Breezy ", a to-be-queen bee, Breezy, is attracted to the flower where Finn's arm used to be. As time progresses, she discovers that she not only likes Finn's flower, but has a crush on Finn himself. When Finn is threatened by the other bees, Breezy drinks the "royal jelly" to transform into the rightful queen bee of the hive and save him with her new-found powers.
She confesses her love for him, but Finn declines the offer to be with her, stating that the feeling is simply not mutual, highlighting his insensitivity and carelessness at the time. Erin is Finn's non-canon love interest whom he meets in " Food Chain. After a short interaction with each other, they jump to a quick conclusion to get married. At their marriage, Finn was nervous at first with Erin's beauty and as they were about to kiss, a pair of birds suddenly came and attacked the caterpillars.
Finn and Erin tried to escape, but went flying then falling. Before Finn went back to normal, he vowed to Erin that he'll marry her again when they meet again in a different lifetime. When Finn turns back to normal, it is unknown what happened to her.
Huntress Wizard is Finn's secret love interest with whom he interacts in " Flute Spell ", in which he tried to help her by summoning the Spirit of the Forest. After many failed attempts Finn had been absent for some time as stated by Jake , they succeeded when they played their flutes together and the Spirit finally appears.
The Spirit then asks Finn who is he really playing his Flute Spell for. After some hesitance, Finn answered that it was for Huntress Wizard, and confesses his secret feelings for her, stating that he was going to play the Flute Spell until his "flute broke".
Many folks look back at the beginning of their relationship with fondness. They remember all the dates, trips, and happy times discovering each other. Then work, PTA meetings, the lawn; all these things seem to conspire to take over your life. Your relationship is left longing. There are three main ways to make time for your partnership. You have to make time to talk, time to date, and time to connect physically.
Time to talk includes conversations about what is working well and challenges within your relationship. Focus on your role within the larger family will be discussed at a different time. Making time to communicate about your relationship will help you avoid conflicts in the future and help you feel like a teammate with your partner. Working together against the chaos of the world.
Taking time to have a date night is important too. Life cannot be all work, so a night to focus on connecting and enjoyment helps strengthen a relationship. This could be anything from a fancy dinner out to a walk around town lake. Just taking a little time to reestablish your romantic connection will strengthen your relationship.
The last piece of time management for your is making time for your erotic selves. This piece is too often sacrificed to the gods of exhaustion.
Many couples find it difficult to maintain an erotic life over time once the daily business of living gets done with them.
You have to make time to connect with your partner physically. The same applies for familial bonds, friendships, mentorships and most definitely love.
Both of you have to commit to the relationship together. You have to give more and more just to keep the relationship afloat. Unless this imbalance is addressed, it will only become bigger and bigger over time. Soon you sink your whole self into it, losing your self identity in the process. For any friendship or relationship to work out, there has to be certain similarity in fundamental values. Similarity in these values are the big rocks which will hold the friendship in place.
Even if other things are dissimilar, the big rocks will enable the friendship to weather through even the toughest storms ahead. The journey to keep the relationship together will only become an uphill battle. Without the roots of the tree to hold this soil together, everything will just slip away against your best efforts.
A relationship is ultimately a third entity formed due to two individuals. Every relationship evolves based on how both parties are growing. Sometimes both parties grow at the same pace.
Then there are times when one outgrows the other, by a large margin. Determine who you are and who you want to be, then decide if this relationship is one that is compatible with you. This is similar to 1, except it pertains to the future.
You can hope that the future will be better, but the fact is you live now. The future you wish for is one of the many possibilities that can occur, a possibility that may never come to reality. A building built on a shaky foundation will crash to an unsightly end when the foundation gives way.
Some of you might linger on in a relationship even though the feelings are gone. Some of you continue on because the relationship still serves certain functional purposes, such as companionship. Yet, a relationship without the mutual feelings is like a body without a heart. If you no longer have feelings for the other party, staying on is doing the other person an injustice. Letting go is one way of saying I love you.
True love exists outside of the physical fabric of a relationship. This is just a form of expression of love, but in no way is the single definition of love. There are things that we never want to let go of, people we never want to leave behind.
Get the manifesto version of this article: Lori Joan via flickr. Freelance Writer Read full profile.
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