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Facebook posts like this! And they always seem to have a bazillion no exaggeration likes, comments or shares. Nearly people saw this image on the left in their newsfeed and figured clicking, commenting and then sharing would reveal some crazy feature or event. To get to a proper answer to that question, you have to get a little nerdy. The secret formula that makes activities such as sharing, commenting and liking a post such a valuable commodity. EdgeRank is the reason you see a lot of rubbish in your Facebook newsfeed these days.
Certain people and pages have EdgeRank factors that Facebook have decided are relevant to you. But the problem is, building up these audiences and edge rank is a time consuming and often difficult task.
The REAL story about this little girl is something much different: Read about it here. And within 3 days a post like this one has 70, likes, and someone somewhere is about to make a nice little profit by selling the page to a business wanting some quick wins.
The buyer then changes some of the page details. Page name cannot be altered after likes, just details of the page. Where there is profit to be made, there will be people who will figure out a way to game the system. This is one of the games. Best way to stop this stuff from occurring is to not promote this rubbish.
Share this post within 10 seconds if you agree! What a fantastic post! I got a similar rage on just afew weeks ago and wrote this post about the same thing. It seems we are not alone and many people feel the same way! But, as the rule of the interwebs goes: If theres a way to spam it, then it will be spammed! I really hope Facebook fix it soon. How do you propose Facebook fix it? Their system seems to be functioning but the users are the problem. Can we report these stupid chain letters as being stupid chain letters to any beneficial effect?
The internet will always be full of morons but some quick moderation should be able to kill these things, and their parent pages, pretty quickly. Hey Flasher, Since writing this post Oct Facebook have made it a lot easier to block-out certain feeds from users on your newsfeed. So I guess this is the fix I was talking about. It seems to work pretty good for me at the moment. EdgeRank is doing the rest — for me anyways. Like posts in general do not find there way onto my feed much at all anymore.
The posts still exist, yet I just dont see them. Wow FB is for socializing the spam is one thing but to try and censor the way people relate to each other is somewhat controlling and offensive. Try Tweeting instead that way you can be in control of your whole world. The purpose of this article was to inform people about what is happening behind the scenes when terrible spam posts like these are unwittingly posted on their friends wall simply by liking something.
Most people don;t know that clicking that little thumbs up is probably spamming their entire friends list. What FB often tries to pull is a bait-and-switch, and as users, we have the right to know that and to react accordingly.
And Daylan, again, thank you for explaining that to me. It has been frustrating me for months not understanding why these posts even exists, nor why so many people I know feel constantly compelled to click.
I get it a lot more now. The way to fix this, of course, is to do away with EdgeRank, and just go back to feeds where everything my friends share shows up in chronological order, and nothing else does, without FB trying to decide what I want to see. So so tires of my news feed being full of what they want me to see and not what I want to see. Found your article by chance and love it. We are mostly immune from advertising now. Thanks dylan for the post. Yes, there is lots of spam happening on facebook.
Glad you liked it. I unfortunately am under the spell of Facebook. I still dig it. It is getting a little sloppy lately though. Daylan, thank you for posting this. Well said, factual and clearly written. Moreover, do you believe there is a place for brands on facebook? Aww, this is a tricky one huh. Personally I think business should be on Facebook, but they have to understand why people are on it to start with. Give people what they want, rather than what you want to give them.
I know the reality is a lot different, but scamming people into increasing edge rank,likes, share etc is just treating your customers like dickheads. I have no respect for businesses who do that. The other thing to realise is that edgerank, likes, followers etc is great, but if you have to buy them, then they of what value are they really?
Buying likes from Fiverr is great, but if your business is an Australian business, then what good is likes from the Phillipines gonna do?
But this may well be by means a lot more sinister than merely using spam to advertise an honest product. A million likes is no good if the only audience you attract has nothing to with your service or offering. They know they need likes and followers but thats about the extent of most peoples strategy. The warrior forum is the worst. I have nothing against marketeers, have been around for ages and sales do make the world go round.
However, these guys turn, FB, Youtube, Twitter — you name it they just want to coin from it social media activities. The new thing is now of course Pinterest — already releasing software to pin this and pin that with hidden affiliate link this and hidden affiliate link that — these guys are the reason new rules and regulations are constantly being introduced.
Always knew there was money being made on these Fanpages. Some people share these posts religiously. People see something they like, so they click the like button. That really annoys me. Thanks for the comment and stopping by. Hi, Dylan- thanks for posting this article! Your insight is really valuable- thanks again! I agree with Martin and most of you all. Ergo — no way of buying some huge-ass spam fanpage and merging it with your own, or alternating it to your own… Enlighten me if I am wrong, please.
Well thats a good thing. Thats a good start I guess. Another person — via Reddit — commented that FB are making it more difficult to on-sell them too. Thanks for the info. Just ignore or is there a way to report them? Someone posted on Reddit that http: But i havent used it so cannot verify if it works or not.
For me at least, I just get really mad internally, and hate on the person who is responsible for 5 minutes, then forget all about it. FBpurity is a godsend. We like to state that cancer is terrible, we hate bullying, we think the kitten is cute. Well, I like this article, so I sharing. Tank you for great information …. Instant fanpage with a big following, lots of likes and an in depth edge rank. Except this is both factually and technically incorrect, as once a page gets over likes, the page name cannot be changed only the custom URL making it completely worthless for a business to change details.
Cheers Mike, yeah a few people have told me this. Seems like everything but the name can be altered after likes now. Thanks Naomi, I had to look up what a luddite was, but glad to hear even people in the textile industry enjoyed it. This was very helpful. Thanks for explaining my instinct to myself. A good article Daylan, only since you cannot change the name of a page that has over people like it. Thanks Jon, Yeah a few people have said about the limit. Thanks again for reading./p>
My next relationship was with a woman who turned my life upside-down. With hindsight, I can see that it was abusive and damaging, but in the midst of it I was giddy with love. I am not just seeking someone to ward off loneliness. Every person I have dated has wanted to become very serious very quickly. I find this incredibly off-putting. There is a desperation among the people I have met to just couple-up quickly and get on with watching television in companionable silence. The crux of it is, I think, that I find nobody is good enough, which makes me think I am the problem.
I might fancy someone enough to want to kiss them, but find them dull to talk with, or they are fascinating to talk to, but are bankrupt and have nowhere to live and within days are suggesting they move in. Might my inability to find someone be age-related? Or is it me? I am far from perfect, I have scars and weaknesses, too. Am I the problem? Well, I can tell you one thing: It sounds as if you are confident and self-possessed — wonderful things to be, but they can be really attractive for people who lack those attributes; whereas it sounds as if you are looking for someone a bit more like yourself.
I was left wondering what your experiences of relationships were before you got married. There was a sense of a reawakening in you after you got divorced. This is not uncommon in people who have been married a long time; they can go back into the dating scene with the vigour of a teenager, only to find the landscape has changed. This makes you more beautiful in a natural and effortless way, and it will also make you attractive to your soul mate.
Whereas when you try to make yourself attractive in order to find someone, you alter the way you behave and present yourself so that if your soul mate were to show up, he or she might not even recognize you.
So just be yourself , whether that means you dress in corporate attire or resort wear, or casual clothing or more formal, or if your preference changes at different times. Go to the gym only if you love it, do yoga if you love it, walk or surf or cycle if you enjoy those activities. A partner who you will be with over the long term will not make a decision about your worth based on a superficial aspect of your appearance.
So tap into what feels right for you, do the activities you enjoy, wear the clothes that suit you and in which you feel comfortable. You will be far more attractive to your soul mate if you look like yourself when you meet them. Most of us express only a small part of who we are. We limit ourselves to the personality—or self—we have become in response to our childhood environment. This is an unavoidable stage in our developmental process because we have to form a self—or ego—that enables us to survive and hopefully thrive in our family and social setting.
It is like we are unconsciously trying to complete ourselves through our relationships. These relationships usually involve intense attraction at first and are characterized by feelings of completeness. But inevitably, they become stifled by strong relationship patterns that form where people get stuck relating to one another from one main part of themselves that bonds with its opposite in the other person.
But then when stresses and vulnerabilities arise in the relationship, these bonding patterns turn negative, and the partners turn on each other. I am so grateful to have learned about bonding patterns because the awareness of them not only helps enormously in my relationship, but they also act as a guide for which parts of myself I have lost connection to.
Because bonding patterns are the natural way that we give and receive love, they are unavoidable. But bonding patterns can be navigated successfully.
When you become aware that you are attracted to other people because of what you have disowned in yourself, and then work on owning those qualities in yourself, your relationships transform. If you are in a relationship already and you begin this process, then as you and your partner reclaim your disowned selves, you start to become more fully yourselves with each other and your relationship will become richer. And this was one of those. When I got to that party, there he was: And it was a surprise to meet him there.
If I had been intentionally looking for a partner, I probably would not have even spoken to my husband that night. When you look at each person you encounter as if you are screening them for a job with a life-long contract, it changes the organic flow of events and natural connection that forms with the people you encounter.
The simplest way to stop assessing others as potential life partners is to just stop looking for a partner and connect with the people you meet with genuine interest. Then enjoy the type of relationship that naturally develops—or doesn't—whether that's a friendship, a business connection, or a bond based on a mutual interest. When you meet someone you have a good connection with, allow that connection to develop and grow. If the person is a soul mate, he or she will also be into you, so if you both pay genuine attention to each other then something will develop.
There is no need to play games or to try particular seduction techniques or to achieve milestones by a particular time. A successful long-term relationship is not a game. Do you really want to be in a relationship with someone you had to manipulate into it? Do you want your partner to be enchanted by an image you have created so that you have to hide yourself in some way? Or do you want your partner to love you wholeheartedly?
What kind of relationship do you want to bring children into if you end up having them? Each relationship is unique, just as each person is unique, so how your relationship unfolds will be unique too. You can't plan for it to go a particular way.
You have to engage with the process of it and with each other, and then make decisions as you go. There is no one line you can say, no one action you can take, that will lead to a particular result.
All you can do is live your life more fully, learn to accept and love yourself more fully , and you will love and be loved more fully. Couple in Hawaii image via Shutterstock. Astra Niedra writes about relationships and personal growth at her blog Voice Dialogue and You!.
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